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How Healthy Relationships Turn Toxic
Psychologist and relationship counsellor, Dhriti Bhavsar, uses her knowledge and experience to shed light on how seemingly healthy relationships take a turn for the worst. She discusses a few reasons it often happens and how to stop it.
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Object Relations Theory | Psychologist Dhriti Bhavsar
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Ever wonder why you connect with some people and not others? Psychologist Dhriti Bhavsar dives into Object Relations Theory, exploring how our early relationships shape our present ones. In this video, you'll learn: - What exactly is Object Relations Theory? - How do our interactions with caregivers in childhood influence our adult attachments? - What are the benefits of understanding this theo...
Second Chance at Love | Ricky and Mansi's Story
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Life takes unexpected turns, and sometimes, love finds us when we least expect it. In this video, Raksha Bharadia, founder of Bonobology, sits down with Ricky and Mansi, two individuals from India who have each experienced the profound loss of their spouses, leaving them widowed. Despite societal norms and personal grief, they discovered a connection in each other, leading them to forge a new p...
Nervous About Your First Counseling Session? | Dhriti Bhavsar
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We understand going to counselling/therapy for the first time can feel daunting. That's why we've gotten relationship counsellor Dhriti to take you through what you can expect. For the expert consultantion or a therapy, one step to book the session: here you click on: www.bonobology.com/online-therapy/ For more such content on relations, follow our social media handles: Website: www.bonobology....
Is Your Partner Denying Cheating? | A Relationship Counsellor's Advice
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Partner denying cheating and leaving you feeling lost? Relationship counsellor Dhriti Bhavsar offers a lifeline in this video. Learn how to stay calm and ask effective questions. Watch and empower yourself to navigate this difficult situation with clarity and strength. For the expert consultantion or a therapy, one step to book the session: here you click on: www.bonobology.com/online-therapy/ ...
Tackling Tough Topics with Your Daughter | Dr. Cecil Kanuga
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Teenage years are a rollercoaster of emotions, changes, and newfound independence. And as a parent, navigating these uncharted waters with your young adult daughter can feel equally daunting. One crucial yet often avoided topic? Sensitive health issues related to sex and sexuality. That's where Raksha Bharadia, the founder of Bonobology, and Dr. Cecil Kanuga, a renowned gynecologist, step in. I...
How to Deal With a Toxic Husband | Dhriti Bhavsar x Bonobology
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Join Dhriti Bhavsar, a seasoned relationship counselor with a Masters degree in psychology, as she shares invaluable insights on dealing with a toxic husband. Learn practical tips and strategies to navigate challenging situations, prioritize self-care, and foster healthier communication in your relationship. For the expert consultantion or a therapy, one step to book the session: here you click...
Over 40, Single and Happy | Aparna and Devina's Story
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Raksha Bharadia, the founder of Bonobology, sits down for a captivating interview with Devina and Aparna, two remarkable Indian women navigating life over the age of 40 and proudly embracing their single status. In a candid and insightful conversation, they shed light on the unique challenges and joys that come with being single in a society like India where it's not the norm. Devina and Aparna...
Why Do Healthy Relationships Feel Boring? | A Psychologist's Perspective
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Ever found yourself in a relationship with someone who ticks all the right boxes - sweet, sensitive, and pretty much your ideal match - yet, strangely, you're feeling a bit bored? It's a head-scratcher, right? Why does a stable and healthy relationship sometimes leave you yawning, while those toxic partnerships of the past had you on the edge of your seat? Well, psychologist Dhriti Bhavsar is h...
Under Pressure to Get Married as an Indian Woman?
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Explore invaluable insights from Dhriti Bhavsar, a seasoned psychologist holding a master's degree with a specialization in counseling, as she addresses the prevalent issue faced by many women in India-feeling pressured to marry and often perceiving a lack of choice in the matter. In her expert counsel, Dhriti underscores the pivotal role of financial independence as a foundational tip to empow...
How Childhood Affects Adult Relationships | Geetarsh Kaur x Bonobology
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Embark on a transformative journey with Geetarsh Kaur, a seasoned relationship coach, in this video. Geetarsh takes a unique approach, unraveling the intricate threads connecting childhood experiences to adult romantic relationships. Rather than offering conventional advice, she fearlessly dives into the nuanced reasons behind behaviors like clinginess and the attraction to toxic partners. Geet...
Scared of Coming Out to Desi Parents? We Can Help
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Dhriti, a psychology expert with a master's degree in counseling, tackles a topic close to many hearts: coming out to desi parents. She shares valuable advice on how to approach this important conversation with grace, understanding, and a touch of humor! Dhriti's tips are not only practical but also relatable. From gauging your parents' stance on LGBTQ rights before diving into the conversation...
When Your Husband Prioritizes His Family Over You: Solutions and Advice
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Dhriti Bhavsar, a psychologist with a master's degree in psychology specializing in counseling, provides expert advice on a common and often challenging issue that many married women face: feeling like their husband prioritizes their family over them. In this video, Dhriti emphasizes the importance of acknowledging your feelings and reaching out to your support system when you feel neglected. S...
Cheating in a Long Distance Relationship | Dhriti Bhavsar x Bonobology
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Cheating in a Long Distance Relationship | Dhriti Bhavsar x Bonobology
"I miss my affair partner" | Q&A
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"I miss my affair partner" | Q&A
"I feel like I am failing as a mom and my husband doesn't help" | Q&A
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"I feel like I am failing as a mom and my husband doesn't help" | Q&A
"I'm 20 and wondering whether to date a 35 year old" | Q&A
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"I'm 20 and wondering whether to date a 35 year old" | Q&A
"My wife had an affair" | Q&A
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"My wife had an affair" | Q&A
"My wife hit me and I don't know what to do" | Q&A
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"My wife hit me and I don't know what to do" | Q&A
"How can I avoid cheaters when dating someone new?" | Q&A
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"How can I avoid cheaters when dating someone new?" | Q&A
"My girlfriend is friends with her ex" | Q&A
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"My girlfriend is friends with her ex" | Q&A
The Dark Triad | Aakhansha Varghese x Bonobology
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The Dark Triad | Aakhansha Varghese x Bonobology
How to Deal With a Toxic Wife
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How to Deal With a Toxic Wife
Tricked in an Arrange Marriage | Kruti's Story
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Tricked in an Arrange Marriage | Kruti's Story
Unmasking Dark Empaths | Aakhansha Varghese x Bonobology
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Unmasking Dark Empaths | Aakhansha Varghese x Bonobology
Are Open relationships For You? | Aakhansha Varghese x Bonobology
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Are Open relationships For You? | Aakhansha Varghese x Bonobology
Marriage Advice for Men: How to Get Her in the Mood | Geetarsh Kaur x Bonobology
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Marriage Advice for Men: How to Get Her in the Mood | Geetarsh Kaur x Bonobology
5 Indicators You Might Be an INFJ | Aakhansha Varghese x Bonobology
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5 Indicators You Might Be an INFJ | Aakhansha Varghese x Bonobology
Love After an Arranged Marriage: Tips and Advice
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Love After an Arranged Marriage: Tips and Advice
6 Toxic Behaviors That Ruin Relationships | Relationship Coach Geetarsh Kaur
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6 Toxic Behaviors That Ruin Relationships | Relationship Coach Geetarsh Kaur

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @Ammu-7170
    @Ammu-7170 10 годин тому

    Dont forget that not only men have family...women too....

  • @MuhammadKhalid-ch3li
    @MuhammadKhalid-ch3li 10 годин тому

    Someone husband said my wife have patta on my throat and dragged where she wants to go .thanks you secured friend.we are faceing same situation my wife will choose what do you wear and where i go to meet there you go. Same. Nothing difference do not entertain ups and down 18 and neighbours too. I will open the door.

  • @talesofkanmani
    @talesofkanmani 2 дні тому

    Aries whom I know doesn't text at all. But callss right away😂

  • @shilpajagnade2431
    @shilpajagnade2431 2 дні тому

    Zeri help video

  • @azeemshad3280
    @azeemshad3280 2 дні тому

    You are very nice lady

  • @shrawanpurohit3345
    @shrawanpurohit3345 3 дні тому

    Now a dsys wife's are too toxic

  • @lernco4492
    @lernco4492 3 дні тому

    Im surprised you're not covering yourself. It's the age-old question. Science v's religion. Makes no sense.

  • @sachinbhardwaj7255
    @sachinbhardwaj7255 4 дні тому

    wife ka bhai agar uske maa baap ka khyal na rkhe aur apni biwi ko prioritise kare toh? these things are not as simple as they seem. Adjustment and compromise are key to any relationship

  • @dmariebella6309
    @dmariebella6309 4 дні тому

    You are describing my husband quite well

  • @ksarvesh2011
    @ksarvesh2011 4 дні тому

    My partner was also toxic. Now we are going for divorce

  • @user-cr1zg8di8k
    @user-cr1zg8di8k 5 днів тому

    my wife is jack of all traits

  • @loopperson8836
    @loopperson8836 6 днів тому

  • @melissaedmonds1808
    @melissaedmonds1808 7 днів тому

    I worried that I was the toxic one in the relationship. I examined myself thoroughly. But I don’t do these things. He does.

  • @pritisdesai2998
    @pritisdesai2998 8 днів тому

    Ur advice is bulls hit, if husband has already chosen his parents, he just fullfilling his role as a son,, he has already resigned as a husband.

  • @Jude13able
    @Jude13able 8 днів тому

    This is my wife and soon to be ex wife. I hate that I wasted my time on a woman who did me the way she did me. Without going into many details I will put it like this 3 open heart surgeries, in process divorce, her committing infidelities and her blaming me for her leaving me at home alone while she was with her many boyfriends claiming it was a girl's night. I wish I could get that time back and not give it to a worthless person like her. My heart breaks every time I think about how our marriage was destroyed by her. And I'm a Christian so I can't get married again. But now I'm coming to a place in my life where I don't want to get married ever again even if I could.

  • @Trentz2
    @Trentz2 8 днів тому

    Whitewashing pedo behavior, grooming, gold digging and other nefarious reasons won’t change the truth. How is that when these men “wanted to find true love”, it happened to be women in mid 30s or younger. If looks, we’re only factor, there are plenty of women who look amazing. This is pure grooming and pedo behavior. Going after women 20,30 years younger. Of course on the other hand there are super rich young men, but well they won’t marry early and even if they do, they may or may not stick around, that’s why these young women prefer older men. The comment section is full of older men, justifying their behavior, just like gold diggers justify theirs and frauds, and under world people and politicians justify their behavior.

  • @deepjoydas2541
    @deepjoydas2541 8 днів тому

    My mental health is already in irreversible stste

  • @NAFOARMY
    @NAFOARMY 9 днів тому

    Ha! I just want her to go away! And she will play the victim!!! We set boundaries, she shattered them 100x and jeeps doing so! Now i want her out, but because i dont want her riding around alone with a guy 16 years younger than her, getting baked, alone... im controlling?!?! No, i set boundaries, she hid these actions like all her past sleepovers with other dudes, i found out, now im controlling? I just wish shed vanish!

  • @kaurg5753
    @kaurg5753 9 днів тому

    My husband whatever small big things i talk to him, he discuss those with his mom, i dont trust him anymore, it feels so weird, feeling like i am living with someone's kid who is just keeping an eye on me for his mom

  • @stutijain9418
    @stutijain9418 10 днів тому

    Why do only women have to understand all the times? What if after facing disrespect from his parents, he still chooses them instead of fixing things for her. Nobody is asking him to abandon his parents, but at least one conversation about how everyone needs to respect his wife is not much to ask for. An Indian woman always understands and supports the husband with his duties towards his family.. that's our cultural conditioning.. but that doesn't give anyone any right to disrespect her or purposefully try to create problems between the couple. And if that is happening, the husband should put the foot down and have a talk with his family as a husband rather than as a son or brother.!

  • @PraiseW
    @PraiseW 10 днів тому

    Whatever your have mentioned in your video is vary correct,,,my wife have those bad qualities,,,she's very toxic and sometimes make you feel like you have no sense coz Whatever decision you make looks useless to her ,,she's so controlling

  • @jessherrera427
    @jessherrera427 10 днів тому

    I have been toxic towards my husband. I grew up in a toxic household with a narcissist mother. When I got married I had to clue what being healthy was. I still have some of these traits but I am healing myself from all. It even got to the point that my spouse cheated on me not justifying his actions but I am taking accountability on mines and just want to be better.

  • @mishamisha2990
    @mishamisha2990 11 днів тому

    If you are ready to be toxic and get toxicity,marry otherwise be single.

  • @kailashgosavi5416
    @kailashgosavi5416 12 днів тому

    everything said is totally correct in my case,,,,i just cant get out of this,,,,,,,,,,,,,,she has been isolating me since 20004,,,,,,,,,first ,,,,relatives,then family ,,,then my parents,,,then ,,,my best friends my job,,,,,,,and now,,,,its come to my kids

  • @suniideeku
    @suniideeku 12 днів тому

    My husband keeps comparing me with his female friend and keeps telling me how little I make. My in-laws say why i have a cook at home, I should be cooking and cooking 3 times a day. And I'm blamed if the kid gets less marks in exams. Also he is 40+ so whomever is 30+ unmarried women are there in the office, he makes friends with them, off late I noticed, that this is a pattern.

  • @edwardmccall450
    @edwardmccall450 13 днів тому

    1st sign. Your Married.

  • @PulaneTv
    @PulaneTv 13 днів тому

    great video

  • @THXx1138
    @THXx1138 13 днів тому

    I am the toxic partner and I loathe myself for it. I have no idea why I am this way and I can't seem to change. My husband is a totally dedicated, self-sacrificing, honest, hard working gentleman and I am just a complaining, rude, mean bitch. He deserves a partner who, at the very least enjoys his company. He doesn't deserve the misery I bring.

  • @kanekaab
    @kanekaab 13 днів тому

    This video is one sided

    • @kanekaab
      @kanekaab 13 днів тому

      @@xylo5063 men face problems if a wife is more inclined towards her mother and allow her mother to interfere

  • @neeraj163143
    @neeraj163143 14 днів тому

    These problems will never get solved no matter whatever even the biggest psychologists say on this matter.

  • @namratasaikia8384
    @namratasaikia8384 14 днів тому

    One of the most shitiest advice I ever heard , so she is alone , traumatized, sideline , ignored by husband , yet the great sacrifice should come from wife wah aunty wah .......

    • @kapilsaxena5134
      @kapilsaxena5134 10 днів тому

      Khud ki respect kijiye Har pal ko jeena sikho Life bahut aasan ho jayegi

  • @shristypriya9722
    @shristypriya9722 14 днів тому

    Worst piece of advice..and you call yourself psychologist..Madam, everyday women are adjusting to the double standard patriarchal system!!!! No women wants to destroy their marital life. They try to fit in and understands culture and system and in this process they completely forgets their own dreams and desires. Unfortunately women fails to acknowledge their own self worth. And when they do they are blamed for reacting or being too loud against the system.

    • @kapilsaxena5134
      @kapilsaxena5134 10 днів тому

      जब महिला का दर्द नहीं समझेगी तो क्या होगा

  • @nitinwadhera3943
    @nitinwadhera3943 14 днів тому

    Time will change and women won't be able to find a husband. Men will prefer staying single.

  • @agrajjoshi6635
    @agrajjoshi6635 15 днів тому

    First fix your lisp

  • @aknshab9874
    @aknshab9874 15 днів тому

    It could be vice versa......its not gender specific.

  • @mireilleibrahim1759
    @mireilleibrahim1759 16 днів тому

    I think i'm a toxic wife, and my husband is in pain right now. What can i do to make him feel better? I didn t know how he feel before i read these comment. I love him so much and i want things to be better

  • @kode7210
    @kode7210 17 днів тому

    Madam with due respect to your degree, I dont want to tell u bad words but your advise is not a doctor advise it is 100% showcasing the fact that you are talking to your Daughter in Law. Bechari ko psychiatrist k pass jane ko kehte ho par khud ke bete ko 2 thappad jade hote to baat yaha tak nahi pahochti. Rayta aap sasu na felaye, aur saaf bahu kare aur aakhir me wo he adjust kare, aur kar na sake to pagal???? Apne bete ko bolo na, k wo apne dimag ka ilaj karvaye????????

    • @kapilsaxena5134
      @kapilsaxena5134 10 днів тому

      जब महिला का दर्द नहीं समझेगी तो क्या होगा

  • @Oiaworld
    @Oiaworld 18 днів тому

    For Me Mother First , Then Wife .

  • @SheSheB.
    @SheSheB. 19 днів тому

    If a man have someone 9 time out of ten he don't want you he just playing you period.

  • @dilyaTebya
    @dilyaTebya 19 днів тому

    Actually this is a family problem. When a wife doesnt get affection from her husband for example she is expected to do all the housechores, take care of the children and her in laws..she turns to her son for affection. So the son becomes substitute for her husband, gets all the attention and love that she suppose to get from her husband. And the vicious cycle continue when this men marry a women and gets a son.. that women will do the same. So all the fathers out there, be an adult and show your son how to be a human and all the mothers, dont be a a** to your daughter in law.

  • @shubhagowri4889
    @shubhagowri4889 20 днів тому

    I found all these signs with my husband. Only toxic things are experienced

  • @shubhagowri4889
    @shubhagowri4889 20 днів тому

    Why can't the husband respect wife's opinion and should marry her?

  • @jamesokeeffe3216
    @jamesokeeffe3216 20 днів тому

    Of all the videos I have watched on men dating younger women this one is the best straight to the point, I am 54 was raised with good manners, I know my place and can read a room, and give advice with very little words, and most of all look at situations with logic and common sense, I was born in the country, so these things are very natural to me, but I am still amazed with how younger women find these traits very attractive, dating somebody, 20 years younger than me is very exciting and makes me feel very young at heart, always be nice, always stay Calm, be impeccable with your word and treat everybody the exact same, we are here for a good time not a long time, really good video thank you young lady☘️❤️🙏

  • @gunjanbisht1063
    @gunjanbisht1063 21 день тому

    My mother illaw sleeps in our room all day and also at night because we have ac in our room my husband says that there is too hot now a days but what about our privacy i don't like that.only 3 years was completed of our mmarriage please someone can explain is it okk or I am over thinking 😢

  • @russellrichins7553
    @russellrichins7553 21 день тому

    My wife is not toxic, and to group all wives as such is really not wise

  • @kavitanaidu1995
    @kavitanaidu1995 21 день тому

    I watched video n for me it was like in humble n polite way u too asking a girl to compromise agess .. there's no solution given in video

  • @jamiexomari3
    @jamiexomari3 22 дні тому

    This applies, to husband, wife, girlfriend or a boyfriend. Even friendships. Applies both ways. Unfortunately I am living in this type of a relationship.

  • @AkanshaGrowArts
    @AkanshaGrowArts 23 дні тому

    “Try to be more understanding “!!! What is this?? Mother in law speaking here ?..!

  • @mpallim5192
    @mpallim5192 23 дні тому

    Don't give useless advise if you don't have any practical experience dear

  • @himanshibharti8225
    @himanshibharti8225 24 дні тому

    If a man can't change himself loving this way to his parents,then why he can imagine that a women can

    • @kapilsaxena5134
      @kapilsaxena5134 10 днів тому

      Self respect is most important but jb samne vala hi care krne vala na ho to life hopeless ho jati h